AES94 Loving and Being Loved
I had this question in my head, I always wondered what’s more important loving and being loved? Some people care more about loving, there are also people that care more to be loved. So which one is the ‘right one’? With my lack of romantic experience, I tried to process this question. Obviously, I went on google to look for an answer, and I found an answer.
It’s that loving and being loved is just as important, it’s almost like the yin and yang. But what makes them different is that only one of those things that we can actually have some power over. Because love is something that comes from the heart, we can’t force love because it just doesn’t make it true.
Loving is a choice, but we can’t force people to love us in return. And that’s really where loving can kinda hurt. Because personally I love and care about many people, and I express my love for them. Of course, I would never make people I love feeling like they have to do something for the love and affection I give them. I do wonder what does receiving genuine love feels like.
Growing up hating the idea of myself as I person, I couldn’t really picture the idea of someone loving me. It’s almost like im trying to sell a product that I don’t even like, so now im trying to love the idea of myself. As much as I love loving others, I do want to be loved someday. I know that I deserve to be loved.
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Ada satu lagi yang menurut ka Andy lebih penting... Be Love... Karena segala sesuatu bermula dari diri kita masing-masing. Sebagai human being, kita bisa memilih untuk menjadi apapun yang kita mau. We can choose to be whatever what we want to be...
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